"Allies"
When a pastor becomes aware of an attack on her church, it is essential that she act swiftly, affirmatively, confidently, and strategically. We have come to believe that among the wisest choices such a pastor can make is the identification and education of those whom she trusts implicitly, and whose clear allegiance to the health of the church is beyond question.
We have also learned that assembling those allies quickly in order to inform them both about the nature and dynamics of the attack on their church, AND the nature and dynamics of these attacks in general, is crucial. First, they bring information that cannot be readily attained from the narrow perspective of their local church: information about what other churches have endured; about patterns that emerge during the attack of a church; about what has already happened in their church long before their becoming aware of it; about the kinds of information circulated amongst the membership of their church; about connections to activists and leaders outside their church who are orchestrating this attack. Second, it is important for them to see that, as they seek the courage to stand up to bullies who use scare tactics and intimidation to coerce others into embracing their ideology, they are being supported and sustained by a community of covenant partners who will hold them up in prayer, will stand with them throughout the process, and who will provide them with resources that they will find helpful. When the allies are assembled, it is critical that they be told everything that is known at the time - including the names of those who have been meeting clandestinely, where they have been meeting, and what they have been talking about. It is also essential that it be made abundantly clear what the motivation of the bullies and attackers is: to take out the church. This is important, because one of the strategies of the attackers is not to reveal that part of the plan until enough anger has been generated around wedge issues. This is a significant piece: many who organize these attacks come across as disgruntled members who just want to discuss a decision or an issue that got them angry. It is important for all who participate in such a dialogue to know what is at stake. It is one thing if some one is angry and wants to get that off their chest. It is quite another to discover that people have been trained to foment dissent in the life of a church around key issues IN ORDER THAT EVENTUALLY THEY CAN LEAD A TAKEOVER OF THE CHURCH. Coaching allies early on to learn about the intentions, the behaviors, and the tactics of these activists makes a huge difference in determining whether or not a church can endure such an attack. One such church is St. John's in Bem, MO. Our conference staff met for the first time with a group of `Allies' almost 18 months ago. I was present at that first meeting with the Pastor and five members whom he had identified as ones willing to cooperate to protect their church from attack. Throughout these 18 months, we have remained in constant contact with those allies and have coached them through many a dilemma. I wrote about the "Matrix" last week on this site, and one of the byproducts of our creating a cadre of allies in this church is a 65 page document they wrote after researching questions raised by members of their church - questions prompted by one the matrices floating around. I have only read through it once, but I have never seen anything like this before. It is a balanced, rational, objective analysis borne of a months long study that included actually speaking to leaders of the denomination being questioned (can you imagine that?!). It does not purport to either take a position against or for the United Church of Christ. It simply answers questions that have been raised and provides key pieces of information which - in the true spirit of the free church tradition - then allows all members to make informed decisions about the matters being questioned. Where this will end for this church is yet to be determined, but in elections held since the attack has begun, proponents of the church maintaining its historic connection to the denomination in which the church was birthed have been elected to key positions of leadership in the church. And these successes have come from the work of these key allies who were not afraid to stand up to the bullying.
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